You’re either part of the solution or part of the problem.
Respect commands itself and can neither be given nor withheld when it is due.
“I know that sometimes people fake on each other out of genuine motives to hold onto the object of their tenderest feelings. They see themselves as so inadequate that they feel forced to wear a mask in order to continuously impress the other. I do not want to “hold” you, I want you to “stay” out of your own need for me”